morethanjustaprettyyface asked: I found out that I was born on the cusp of sagittarius and scorpio:) does that mean that I have traits of both signs?
That is very likely, I am a cusp too and am able to deal with Sagittarius better than a Scorpio born earlier. So I like to think so :)
Anonymous asked: I'm a triple scorpio. I don't have anything to ask, i just want to brag about it. boom.
…that doesn’t make any sense
Anonymous asked: Dear Scorpio Friend, I have a brief question - how do you help a Scorpio who is dealing with depression? I know Scorpios like to have their time alone and I want to respect that, as well as be there for them when they're ready to come back - but what if they can't come back on their own anymore? How can I approach them without seeming too pushy? I'm terribly worried and I'd do anything to help my friend, it's a torture for me to just sit and see them struggle alone.
At this point it’s a medical issue. Maybe you can ease into the subject and inquire whether they are trying to help themselves. Show them your concern, letting them know you are there for them whenever they need you. But it’s also not fair to take on the full burden of their emotional state onto yourself. Depression isn’t easy and if they aren’t trying to seek their own help then you can’t really do much about it. However, if they are on the path to “recovery” then just try to be a good friend. Try to distract them and be as positive as you can without being too overwhelming. It’s difficult to read signs but, if they truly aren’t feeling it then give them some time alone. However, from my experience with friends suffering from depression, them being alone is the most detrimental. So as much distraction from self-harming and loathing thoughts I would think is a good start.
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nymphamortem asked: @anon who's been dating a scorpio for 11 months: Leave. Those are signs of an abusive relationship. That's gaslighting, undermining your self esteem and then making it seem like he's doing it for your own good (wtf), keeping you just where he wants; far enough for him to not have to really commit, but close enough to still keep you with him. Like it's a part time relationship. Leave before it turns worse.
Anonymous asked: hi fuckyeahscorpio! you have an awesome page. i was wondering if you can give me some insight into an issue i have with scorpio men. i am a scorpio woman and i have always had an instant sexual type of connection with scorpio men. I feel like it is purely physical and more than once I have showed more of myself than i prefer to a scorpio dude and been completely fucked over/left high and dry. do scorpio men and women just not mesh well or have i had bad coicidental experiences?
Are you perhaps on the cusp of another sign? Or maybe you just get comfortable easily with them? There are many factors that could be at play. But I don’t think you should feel stupid for allowing yourself to open and being vulnerable - that takes balls. People in general are nervous about relationships and opening up, maybe you were coming on too strong and they weren’t ready to hear it. As emotional as Scorpios are they aren’t always ready to show it and want to be sure of their emotions before they do. Also since you mention it was purely physical, often casual sex and emotions don’t mix well. Not everyone can pull it off, despite popular belief. If you really feel something for them, try to maybe hold off on some of the physical parts and see what happens.
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Anonymous asked: So I'm a Virgo female who's in the beginning stages with a Scorpio male. He admitted that he likes me but I feel as if he's so reserved and don't show enough affection.
Scorpios need their time to adjust. They are so used to having to be secretive and balancing their emotions in front of others because they don’t want people to see their true colors. I’d say be patient and give him some time. If he really likes you, try to notice the little signs for now, for example is he texting you often? Trying to see how you’re doing? Asking to see you? Once he is comfortable with your relationship you’ll be surprised how much a Scorpio can open up.
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Anonymous asked: Recently my Scorpio boyfriend of about 11 months has been taking little digs at me when bickering. He said once that i'm "boring" and even told me i should watch what i eat. He says it's because he loves me and feels he's someone that could share that with me. He also told me that he really loves spending time with his friends and wants to make more time for them, aka, see me less. However, he still says he loves me and takes me out on dates. I'm a Virgo. Is this something to be stressed about?
Let’s leave signs out of this for a minute. If your boyfriend isn’t making you feel good about yourself, why should you have to deal with it? There are many ways of trying to help you improve yourself, like asking if you want to go to the gym with him or trying to take you out on more interesting dates. It’s okay for you two to have your own separate lives, in fact it’s healthy. Bro time and girls night out are important to maintain your individuality. But he shouldn’t be putting you on the sidelines. Scorpios are a very jealous and possessive sign, maybe you should give him some of his own medicine - that’ll drive him crazy. Just be cooperative and perhaps distance yourself as well, make time to do things you’ve always wanted to do that maybe he’s stopped you from doing. Show him that he’s not the only thing in your life. Who knows maybe this’ll surprise him and show him that you’re not as boring as he thinks.
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